How not to enter into a relationship
In these period where marriage seems to be the happening thing. Almost everywhere you turn to, there is a marriage, a proposal or even just two people hanging out with each other and going on dates. These things are beautiful to watch and sooner or later, if you don’t fall into any of that category you will long for it.
Some tips on how not to enter a relationship
I will start by saying never get into a relationship because you feel like it or because the people around you are in one. That is the greatest recipe for heartbreak. You may be under pressure to be in a relationship if you have friends that are all in relationships. Be comfortable being a third wheel rather than rushing into one and rushing out with scars.
Next, don’t enter a relationship based on physical things or physical looks. Don’t be tempted by nice gifts, sweet words, constant reassuring touch and loving looks. All those things are nice and needed in every relationship, but they are not enough to keep the relationship.
It is also important not to enter into a relationship because of emotions. The two of you liking each other will not be enough to withstand the pressures that will eventually hit.
Things to note before entering a relationship
Calm down, get to know each other. Understand your belief systems and find a way around it. Don’t just skip it with the hope to deal with it later. Deal with it now and settle it once and for all.
You have to know that long lasting relationships is more than just looking good together or loving each other, it is first a decision.
Who knows, I might write something about things to consider when entering into a relationship.